Am I the Same Person?

 


Scripture Reading: James 3:1-12


“But no man can tame the tongue. It is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our God and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in the similitude of God. Out of the same mouth proceed blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not to be so.”—James 3:8-10

What if my work colleagues, church members, family and friends all met? When they compared notes, would they have the same picture of me or would each be surprised by other accounts of my conduct and speech? When one described me, would others agree my personality was consistent? Or would some be confused, even shocked by what they heard?

Does my speech reflect what I claim to be? Is my speech the same regardless who’s listening? Or do I check my audience and filter my speech to avoid language that wouldn’t be appropriate? Do my words in private, via social media, and electronic means reflect my professed faith or would I be embarrassed if someone had access to my conversations?

Do my words build up and encourage others, or do I repeat gossip and engage in character assassinations? Do I say whatever I want, however I want because “I call it like it is and let the chips fall where they may!”? Or do I control what’s said and how it’s said so my words are gracious even when addressing difficult issues? Do I sacrifice “peace of mind” by giving others “a piece of my mind” without the courtesy of sparing their feelings?

Are my words hypocritical; one moment blessing God and the next moment “blessing (cursing) someone out?”

Our words have power. They’re more than merely a reflection of ourselves. They speak of our faith and the God we claim to serve. Regardless what we think of ourselves, what we communicate and the spirit in which we communicate it reveals the true heart of who we are. Not just when we want that to be the case, but at all times.

Am I the same person no matter my environment or situation? 

Lesson to Remember: Who I am when I think no one is looking or listening is who I am.
“If anyone among you thinks he is religious, and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this one’s religion is useless.”—James 1:26