True Love and Friendship

Elimelech, Naomi and their sons traveled from Bethlehem-Judah to Moab to escape famine. While in Moab, Elimelech died and then Naomi’s two sons married Moabite women. When both sons died also, Naomi decided to return to Bethlehem. Her daughters-in-law attempted to follow her, but Naomi sent them home to their mothers. Orpah returned home but Ruth refused to leave Naomi.

Given the choice of returning to her family and culture, or the uncertainty of life with Naomi, Ruth responded with one of the most eloquent pledges of love and commitment ever recorded. In a world of disposable, short-term relationships that remain as long as it is convenient or beneficial, it is difficult to find Naomi’s who represent true love and unconditional friendship.

Today’s language is saturated with the words “love” and “friend” without fathoming the true depth and meaning of the words. A friend is no fair weather acquaintance, but one who offers steadfast, unwavering love and support during difficult and uncertain times. She knows our faults and decides to remain with us. He offers accountability and loving rebuke without the scent of condemnation and judgment. True love prompts a friend to speak and accept the truth even when it is not pleasant. A friend forgives and seeks forgiveness without hesitation. A true friend loves us even during our most unlovable moments.

The true essence of love and friendship is found when we choose to bear difficult times with another because the load is lighter when it is shared. True love and friendship is when we are willing to endure anything and everything, simply to walk with that person.

If we are wise, we will have many colleagues, associates and acquaintances in our spheres of influence, but we will have a sacred few who meet the criteria to be called our “friend.”